Monday, August 9, 2010

The meaning of "Real Friends"

I'm not going to write any moody passage about friendship in this particular topic. As for this time, I wanna write about the meaning of friendship. :)
Before that, let me ask you a question, 'Are friends important to you?' Without any doubt, I know most of the people will say "Yes, of course!", right? And so, me too. But yet, not all of them know what is the meaning of "Real Friends".

In your opinion, what do you think about real friends? Real friends are those who will praise you whenever you're right or wrong just because want you to be happy? Or those who will only share their happiness with you and tend to kept all the sadness to themselves? Or those who always pretend nothing in front of you but yet they aren't that? Or those when they need you, they will find you, but when there's nothing, there will dissapear? Or....................?

They are many possibilities. Just too many. I can't manage to list out all of it. But yet, if you think that's the way it is. Then I can tell you, you're WRONG! This's not what we known as "Real Friends".

Last week, I was quite emo-ing. My friends kept cheering me up and what I've did is just give them a smile. Just like that ---> :] ..... It seems to be fake, right? They tend to be with me everytime. And I really wanna say thank you to you. But what she told me is, "Real friends need not need to say so. We're friends and we should help each other. If it was me, you would do the same things too." Awwwww! I really felt so touched. :) 

***The meaning of "Real Friends"***

Real friend is someone to cry with during bad times.
You can be YOURSELF with them and not need to pretend anything. Just tell him/her everything that you're sad with. The sign of real friend is that you can cry on their shoulder until you are done crying. If you're crying too long, your friend will make you snap out of it. They will do whatever things to cheer you up. :)

Real friend is someone to rage with when life is really unfair.
Not to say that they are going to help you plot your enemies or anything like that, but just that when you're really pissed off, they will always be there for you. You can be frank and tell them what's happening. They'll help you to find ways to dissipate the anger. No matter what it is that you are upset about, your real friends will always be there for you. :)

Real friend is someone that you can laugh with until you make that funny snorting sound.
I believe most of us did this. Jokes around with them, chatting some non-sense together and doing something that's really funny/stupid to make them laugh. Aren't you? For me, yes, I am. Only with my dearest friends I laughed so hard until tears poured down from my face. We had fun together whenever where we are. With them, it really cheer my day up. :)

Friendship is easy to build but yet it's hard to get a real friend and to maintain the relationship until the end. You may have 100 friends, but yet, how many of them will be your "real friends"? As what I've mention many time before, friends are not measure by quantity where it's by quality. Friends are just like our second family. Without them, our life just become black and white.

Dustbin??! What's related with this post??!

Don't be curious I put this picture up here. Just out of the sudden, I think of 1 senteces. Remember, I'm available in many sizes, no matter how huge the garbage is, I'm still able to fill you all up! :P
To all my friends. I'm dustbin and you're garbage. Whenever you're happy, you can keep everything inside me, because I will help you to keep it! Whenever you're not happy, you can throw everything inside me, because I will help you digest it! Whenever you need protect, don't worry, I won't run away from you, because ...I'm the one who will protect you from enemies! Hahaha..XD 

Appreciate all your friends, you might just lose them if you don't appreaciate them. Don't ever regret why you've did so. It's too late by that time. I will always be with you whenever you need me! This's my promise. A real friend is one of life’s greatest blessings; do not forget to give thanks. God bless! :)

1 comment:

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